So you’re in it. You’re a father. You’re deep in with the mother of your child. And you’re up to your ears in stress. This stress is tearing you apart.
You thought life was going to be easier with a family.
You thought you’d made it.
But you’ve discovered that it is much, much harder than you could have ever imagined.
You fight with your woman.
Your love life isn’t good.
You keep telling yourself that if you could just make enough money, everything would be fine.
But no amount of money ever seems to be enough.
You fight with her all the time.
Your relationship is falling apart and you don’t know how you’re going to save it.
Well let me tell you this – the price of losing your woman and likely the custody of your children and being on the hook for child support or alimony is going to be very, very steep.
Don’t delude yourself – no matter how much money you’ve stashed away, it will all be gone sooner or later if you don’t fix it.
If you actually love your woman, you will deeply regret doing too little too late.
Sooner or later, she will be gone.
And she will take your children with her.
And your fortune.
And she will be with another man.
And another man will raise your kids instead of you.
Is that what you want?
DESERVING THE CROWN
What if you could turn back the hands of time and tap into the energy you and your woman were in when you first fell in love?
Except even better.
Even more expansive.
Explosive passion and romance far beyond your wildest dreams.
Seeing her eyes burning with desire for you and unable to get enough of you.
What if your children looked up to you as a leader and wished they could be like you?
Running to the door to hug you as soon as you got home.
Excited to play with you.
I am telling you, brother, this is all possible.
And more.
You know it is because you’ve had some wonderful times with your woman and children.
But what you don’t know is just how amazing it could be.
That it could be better than you’ve ever fantasized about.
Where not just your woman, but all of her female friends deeply respect you and wish their men were more like you.
Where you feel so powerful and so on top of the world that you truly feel like a king.
Where people listen to you.
Where people want you.
Where they want direction from you.
Unwavering confidence. Amazing courage. Adoration. Loyalty. Kings have these things. You have been asleep, brother.
Are you ready to wake up and claim your crown? Your kingdom?
YOU ARE BEING CALLED
There’s a new kind of man emerging in the world. This man isn’t a product of the past but is ready to take control of the forces of destiny and do what God built him to do.
This man is YOU.
Why haven’t you begun yet? Because you weren’t ready until now.
You’ve been stuck in all kinds of difficult life situations that have delayed this moment.
Sometimes, you haven’t really been sure how to move forward, or even what direction to go in.
You lack clarity about yourself, can’t bring yourself to break bad habits or commit yourself to developing better ones, and are continually mystified and frustrated with work, family and health problems. Communication breakdowns happen all the time for you and your woman and kids.
And you’re not alone. I have been there more times than I can count. I spent the first 42 years of my life confused and often quite frustrated. I went through periods of addiction. I couldn’t keep my relationships in good shape. I struggled with poverty to the point of homelessness.
I had periods of clarity and many victories, but even living the life I always thought would make me happy, I just wasn’t. It didn’t make any sense. I didn’t understand why even in living what I thought was my dream (and making a lot of money doing it), I still wasn’t fulfilled.
In 2023, I lost everything one fell swoop. My woman. My house. My pets. All gone.
For the fourth time in my life.
I was badly addicted to alcohol, nicotine and caffeine. I was a liar and a cheat.
My life was on a crash course to poverty, loneliness and disease.
I made $165,000 in profit from the sale of our house, but it was all gone.
I was full of rage and bitterness and regret.
But then, something incredible happened.
God revealed something to me that allowed me to quit alcohol, nicotine and caffeine all cold turkey without looking back. It turned my financial situation around within months and transformed me from a man that women hated into a man that women fawn over.
This is what I am offering to teach you here.
Use it, and it will turn you into the king you are meant to be.
THE MAGICIAN CODES
Within every man is a magician.
What is a magician?
A magician is someone who knows how to leverage the power of his imagination to create brilliant things out of nothing.
Your magician, my brother, is absent.
A pretender has taken his place.
This pretender is using the power of your own imagination and knowledge against you.
All those worries you have inside you – all that fear and anxiety…
They have built up to the point where you need substances to distract yourself from the pain.
Because your magician is asleep, this pretender is deep at work sabotaging your life.
And you don’t even know it.
Why?
Because you’re too busy sedating yourself, distracting yourself, overwhelming yourself, escaping the harsh realities of your situation through various forms of escapism.
My brother, we need to awaken your magician.
Because your magician can make you feel far better than you’ve ever felt on any drug naturally.
Your magician is masterful of mind and emotion.
In minutes, he has the power to completely change how you feel along with your state of mind.
When you awaken him, you will no longer be trapped in the past.
You will no longer struggle with guilt and shame.
Instead, you will leave that all behind and learn to do what by all means should be impossible.
You will free yourself from your own self-judgment.
THE WARRIOR CODES
Within you also lies a fierce, fearless warrior.
This warrior is capable of overcoming immense obstacles and winning against the odds.
But he is not strong enough yet, so he cannot hold his boundaries.
Because of this, you have a hard time saying NO to anything or anyone.
Instead, you tell people what they want to hear.
And you don’t always do what you say you will do.
You avoid conflict and people please in order to stay comfortable.
But deep down, you are terrified.
You do not know how to meet conflict head on and collide without losing your temper.
You won’t take a stand because frankly, you’re not even sure what you stand for.
And this upsets your woman immensely.
Every time she catches you in a lie, her attraction to you wanes.
Instead of expressing gratitude for her and for all you are blessed with, you complain about your circumstances.
And you waste time lying around sedated.
While you may work hard, you’re not really in control.
And you don’t want to admit it, but you’re wasting a lot of your money on stupid things.
Because you’re wishy-washy and you don’t follow your own rules.
You encourage others do things that you cannot bring yourself to do.
Brother, we need to strengthen your warrior.
Because make no mistake – you are at war. And you will lose unless your warrior is strong and able to hold his ground and fight for what he desires and values.
THE LOVER CODES
You love your woman and you love your children.
You tell them you love them all the time.
The problem is that you’re particularly bad at loving yourself because deep down you feel sorry for yourself.
And pity is not love.
You’ve given up the things you loved so that you could make your woman and children happy.
Except that they’re not happy.
And neither are you.
Because you are no longer doing what you love, but what you think you need to do to survive.
What you have to realize is that your ability to love your wife and your kids is limited by your commitment to loving yourself.
If you know how to love and care for yourself, you will happier, brighter and much better at loving others.
This also means giving yourself time to work on your passions and do the things that make you feel alive.
And it means truly loving the other men in your life as brothers instead of being wholly dependent on women for love and support.
Brother, we have to train you to love better.
Because without skill at love, you will not be a good lover.
And no woman wants to stay with a man that does not know how to love well.
Above all, we must show you how to love yourself well and to love God.
Because if you cannot manage to love well, the love you have will soon be gone.
THE KING CODES
Within you is a natural leader who is capable of commanding great respect and loyalty.
The problem is, you don’t respect yourself and you betray yourself time and time again.
You cannot be a king unless you have great self-respect and you understand the value of loyalty, that it is far more valuable than cleverness.
The difference between a king and a man is that a king takes responsibility for ALL his current life circumstances, regardless of whether he created them or not.
Whereas a man blames others for his circumstances, whether it be his parents, his wife, his children, or the government.
Responsibility makes a king able to respond to these circumstances and change them.
When you avoid responsibility, you abdicate your throne.
This causes all kinds of terrible problems.
Because the truth is that your woman does not want to rule.
She only challenges you to test your strength.
She would rather just have fun and celebrate your winnings with you as you grow your kingdom.
But unfortunately, because you refuse to take responsibility for the circumstances you have created, she has to do the ruling instead.
And if you try to rule but you do not follow your own rules, no one will respect your authority.
More than anything, to be a king means to lead other men as well as your family.
To do this, you must learn the skills of leadership.
And you must learn what it means to have loyalty to God.
Because with God’s help, anything is possible.
And of your own self, you can do nothing.
Brother, we will make you into a king so you can have authority and prosperity in your kingdom.
But first, you must learn to lead.
THE KING'S CHAMBER
The King's Chamber is a men's group designed to help men rise to the unique challenges of modern life.
At Harmonic Awakenings, we believe that the modern man deserves more than he gets.
As has been documented in Robert Bly's "Iron John" modern men are in the midst of a crisis.
Masculinity has been demonized and distorted by radical feminism, putting men in terribly compromised positions.
In many romantic relatioships, the woman outearns the man and has taken the leadership in the family by default because the man cannot find his power.
While it is clear that some women want to lead and that the proud, strong woman is in vogue, what happened to male leadership in the process?
It has essentially died.
Rare is it to find a man who can truly be called a leader, who other men look up to.
Most men lead lonely, isloated lives even if they have wives and children and businesses.
Many men are caught in the grip of addictions that are slowly destroying their health day by day.
Too many men end up committing suicide after divorce in middle age.
The King's Chamber was created to help modern men deal with common issues from a place of power.
We plan to begin meeting regularly both online via Zoom and in-person in Miami starting in July of 2024.
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